We all know that hitting that big 3-0 can be really scary especially for women. When the big day finally arrived, you are really excited for the future but also extremely scare because you're in your 30s and still single.
Let's face it by this phrase of your life, most of your close friends will already be settling or have settled down with someone. Those girls' night out barely or no longer exist. You find that your pool of single friends are getting smaller and smaller the older you get. This is when we realized, wow, it's not that easy to meet someone. We are no longer in school and you no longer can party like a rock star. Even if you can, your body just don't agree with it anymore.
Don't feel so bad, life is not over. So you are single, get over it and start living! Life are so full of opportunities. Stop being afraid and go out there, it's time for you to live up to your potential and explore what life have to offer.
What should I do?
You know the thing that you dream of accomplishing in life but you keep putting it off because you have way too many excuses. Time to start doing and stop procrastinating. Remember those dreams you have, whether it's traveling the world or starting that new career?
Well, go ahead and do it, trust me, it's scary but you will love it. Remember, we all have to learned to crawl before we learned to walk. Falling is a good thing, failing is part of living. You will feel so accomplish just for being so independent. Once you start doing thing on your own, living life how ever you want to live it, you will find that being single isn't as bad as it seemed.
If you are one of those girls who always dream about finding the prince charming and the perfect wedding dress, well don't sit at home. So what if you're girlfriends no longer available. Go out and make some new friends, join the gym, volunteer, dating site, for god sake, just go out there and start talking to people.
Nothing beat having confident in yourself, no seriously, the key world is confident. GET IT?. If you are sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself, this is when everyone else start to noticed how pathetic you are. You know that guy, you been looking at, he will notice it too. When you're feeling like a looser, you will look the part. So starting feeling and look like a winner.
Go on, take a look at yourself in the mirror. Are you still going out, grocery shopping in your sweat pants? Let's stop that, shall we? Come on, we all know, you can do better than that. Yes, that right, I am talking to you! The gorgeous women that you are, now show it. Don't be afraid, flaunt whatever asset you got and show it to the world. He will notice it too. Remember when you look good, you feel good and everyone will see that as well. A smile also wouldn't hurt, smile and say "hello" to everyone that walk by and look your way. No one want to be around such a downer. That's right stop your bitching and start living!!
The key word is confident and having positive attitude. The good thing about being in the 21st century is women can do whatever it is that men do when it's come to sex and dating. You know that guy, the one you are dying for him to asked you out? Why don't you asked him out? Go for it, after all you only live once, just live and enjoy it while you can. Life is what you make of it. So what if he say "no" at least you know you try......
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